Is love something we choose or does it choose us ??…..
Throughout the ages many thinkers, poets and dreamers have struggle with this question. Love is the most common feeling we share, yet the least understood. Love is not just emotion, its mirror of our soul…..Love is very pure feeling. Our love can be for nature, for animals, for god, for parents, for children or anybody else.For different people definition of love is different but originally LOVE is one of the purest quality of human.
The Nature of Love- Beyond Emotion
Love is not just a feeling but a conscious state of being. When love is state of being, it is not depend on our temporary emotions. LOVE is conscious decision to act in loving ways- to care, support, forgive and remain committed irrespective of situation and circumstances.
For example
If love is only a feeling, then when you get upset with your partner or friend or family members, the love would disappear. But when love is a status of being, you still choose kindness, empathy and patience even in moments of frustration, because love has become part of who you are, not just what you feel. If you really love someone you can not speak or listen any negative thing about him or her because love is in your heart it does not depends on presence or absence of person or things.
Many people confuse between love and like….but its very simple to identify….when we love someone or something our behavior about to give and to express feelings. But when we like someone or something we expect from them. I give you very simple example to understand love…when you like a flower you pluck it but when you love flower you nourish and care the plant.
What is selfless love ?
Love is more than rush of a heartbeat or heat of smile, Love is a choice woven into the fabric of our existence. Feelings can rise and fall, love is a state of being, remains steady. Love is the decision to see another soul fully, to honor their light and shadows and to walk beside them even when path is rough. in this way love is less about our feeling in moment and more about our choice of being everyday….
What is power of love ??
Love is deepest and purest feeling. Love has power to heal our emotions. Love can heal our mental emotional and physical traumas. Love can make us humble, kind and emerge our goodness. Love can improve the response of situations. When we are in love we never hurts others and no one hurts us because Love is our original quality which emerge from within.
When love, spiritual power and nature combine it creates magic. These combination healing power is much powerful than any medical treatment in this world. There is no medicine which cure any person depression 100 percent even after paying lakes of rupees but when that person connect to nature and spirituality with feeling of love it gives amazing result; which is beyond any worlds can explain. It is a pure feeling and only experience it, not easy to explain. For me love is blessing.